How to choose a diet: calories, protein, common sense

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Choosing “the best diet” would be simple if the body responded the same way in everyone and if nutrition research were as controllable as a drug trial. But it isn’t. Food isn’t a single molecule: it’s a mix of hundreds of compounds, it changes with sourcing and preparation, and it interacts with sleep, stress, muscle mass, microbiome, and medical history.

Still, you don’t have to stay confused—or join diet tribal wars (carnivore vs. vegan, keto vs. low fat). You can follow a simple framework that works for most people and then tailor it to your goal.

Why nutrition gets so controversial

There’s a huge imbalance between how confident people sound and how strong the data often is. A lot of evidence is observational, with biases that are hard to remove. That doesn’t mean “anything goes,” but it does mean you should be skeptical of absolute certainty.

On top of that, individual response varies: two people can eat the same thing and experience different hunger, energy, or metabolic markers. So the goal isn’t a perfect diet—it’s a sustainable diet you can repeat.

The minimum framework that actually matters

If you focus on a few levers, these are the big ones:

1) Total energy (calories) and balance

To lose fat, you need an energy deficit. To gain mass, a surplus. It’s basic, but many debates ignore this foundation.

Practical tip: if your weight doesn’t change for 2–3 weeks, adjust one variable: reduce portions, increase protein/vegetables, or raise daily activity.

2) Protein: the lever that helps most

Protein improves satiety, helps preserve muscle during a deficit, and supports body recomposition.

Practical tip: spread protein across 2–4 meals and choose sources you enjoy: eggs, dairy, legumes, fish, chicken, tofu, lean meat.

3) Micronutrients and essentials

Beyond calories and protein, cover the basics: minerals, vitamins, essential fats, and enough fiber.

Practical tip: an easy way to avoid gaps is to make half your plate vegetables (and add whole fruit) and include legumes or whole grains several times per week.

4) Minimum fat and carbohydrate tolerance

You need some fat for hormone health and vitamin absorption. Carbohydrates are highly variable: some people feel great with fewer carbs, others with more. The key is how carbs affect hunger, performance, and portion control.

Is there a “best diet”?

In general, the best diet is the one that:

  • Meets protein and micronutrient needs
  • Keeps you satisfied
  • Supports your goal (fat loss, performance, health)
  • Is repeatable in your real life

From there, you can adapt. If a plant-forward diet works for you, great. If you prefer an omnivorous approach, also fine. The problem starts when someone sells one diet as “the only true way” and demonizes everything else.

Processed vs. ultra-processed: a useful rule

Not all “processed” foods are bad. Yogurt or canned beans are processed and can be excellent choices. The real focus is ultra-processed foods that concentrate calories and reduce satiety.

Common ultra-processed signals: snacks you can’t stop eating, sugary drinks, pastries, sweetened cereals, highly palatable ready-to-eat meals.

How to choose a diet based on your goal

If you want fat loss

  • Prioritize protein at each meal
  • Add volume with vegetables and whole fruit
  • Reduce liquid calories (soda, frequent alcohol)
  • Plan 2–3 easy “base meals” you can repeat

If you want performance or muscle gain

  • Keep protein high
  • Increase carbs around training if they help you perform
  • Eat more, but choose foods that also contribute micronutrients

If you have chronic disease or abnormal labs

Personalization matters. Optimizing a healthy person is different from managing type 2 diabetes, fatty liver, or kidney disease. The “best” diet changes.

Practical strategies that almost always work

1) Design your environment

What you keep at home shapes what you eat. If ultra-processed snacks are within reach, you’ll negotiate.

2) Reduce decision fatigue

Pick a rotating set of 10–15 meals you genuinely like that fit the framework (protein + fiber + micronutrients). Variety is good, but deciding from scratch every day is draining.

3) Make the plan measurable (without obsessing)

You don’t need perfect tracking, but you do need feedback.\n\n- Pick one outcome metric (weekly average weight, waist measurement, or gym performance).\n- Pick one behavior metric (protein servings per day, vegetables per day, or steps).\n- Review once per week and adjust one thing at a time.\n\nThis keeps you out of “diet chaos” and turns nutrition into a steady process.

3) Track behavior, not perfection

  • Are you hitting adequate protein?
  • Do you eat vegetables/fruit daily?
  • Do you sleep reasonably?
  • Are your weight/measurements moving the right way?

If yes, you’re on track.

Conclusion

Nutrition is complex, but your strategy doesn’t have to be. Focus on what moves the needle: energy balance, protein, micronutrients, and a diet you can repeat. Then adjust carbs and fats based on tolerance, preferences, and goals. That’s how you avoid noise and build sustainable results.

Author/Source: PeterAttia

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