Chronic pain: stop the brain from sustaining it
Pain is a protective signal. In acute pain, your body warns you about damage or threat (a burn, a sprain) and pushes you to act. Trouble starts when that alarm stays on: pain continues even when the original injury no longer explains what you feel.
Understanding this difference changes the strategy. It’s not about “pushing through” or dismissing pain as “all in your head.” It’s about accepting a key reality: pain is constructed in the brain as a safety response. That creates room to intervene.
Acute vs. chronic pain: what changes
Acute pain is often proportional to an event and improves over time. Chronic pain is commonly defined by duration (for example, daily for 3 months) and by impact: it limits movement, sleep, mood, and social life.
Over time, the nervous system can become more sensitive. That doesn’t mean “nothing is wrong.” It means the alarm threshold drops. In practice, normal stimuli (sitting, stairs, turning your neck) can feel dangerous.
The alarm that won’t shut off
Persistent pain often involves multiple factors:
- Sensitization: the system amplifies signals
- Fear of movement: avoidance reinforces perceived fragility
- Stress and poor sleep: reduce pain tolerance
- Constant attention to symptoms: the brain learns to prioritize them
None of this makes pain less real. It explains why pain can be disabling even without ongoing tissue damage.
Interventions that make sense (and why they work)
First: if you have fever, unexplained weight loss, progressive weakness, bowel/bladder changes, severe night pain, or a cancer history, seek urgent evaluation. And in general, rule out structural causes when appropriate.
Once you’ve done that, these levers often help:
Graded movement, not endless rest
For many conditions, prolonged rest backfires. The goal is to rebuild confidence with small, consistent doses.
- Choose a safe activity (walking, stationary bike, gentle swimming)
- Start easy (10–15 minutes)
- Increase by 10–20% per week if tolerated
- Prioritize consistency over intensity
Sleep: the invisible painkiller
Poor sleep increases sensitivity. Focus on:
- A steady schedule (including weekends)
- Morning daylight
- Caffeine only through early afternoon
- A wind-down routine (warm shower, reading, breathing)
Stress regulation: turn down the system volume
Simple tools can reduce reactivity:
- Slow breathing (4–6 breaths/min for 5 minutes)
- Brief guided meditation
- Progressive muscle relaxation
- Pain-focused psychotherapy (e. g., CBT) when catastrophizing or fear is high
A pain journal: useful insight, not rumination
Tracking helps when it’s used to spot patterns, not obsess.
For 10 days, note:
- Where it hurts and how it feels (sharp, burning, pressure)
- What worsens it and what improves it
- Sleep, stress, movement, medication
This supports better clinical conversations and gives you control.
A simple daily protocol (20–30 minutes)
- 10–15 Minutes of walking or gentle mobility
- 5 Minutes of slow breathing
- 5 Minutes of comfortable stretching or light strength (as tolerated)
- 2 Minutes to plan one thing you’ll do even with pain (a social plan, a task, a hobby)
The message to your system is: “movement is safe” and “my life isn’t on pause.”
When to ask for help—and what to ask
If pain has lasted for months, disrupts sleep, or limits function, request a structured plan. Ask about:
- Graded movement with a physical therapist
- Medication review (benefits, risks, dependence)
- Supportive treatments (pain psychology, mindfulness, occupational therapy)
Practical tactics to lower pain day to day
- The 2/10 rule: during movement, aim for mild discomfort (2 out of 10) instead of avoiding every sensation
- Activity pacing: alternate 20–30 minute blocks with 2–3 minute micro-breaks to prevent flare-ups
- Heat or cold: use whichever helps you move, not as a replacement for movement
A simple graded exposure example
If bending hurts, don’t wait to feel perfect. Practice an easier version (smaller range, using support, or a chair) 3–4 days per week and increase range slowly. The goal is repeated evidence of safety for your nervous system.
How to talk to your clinician
Bring a one-page summary: duration, location, triggers, what you’ve tried, and one functional goal (for example, walking 30 minutes or sleeping through the night). Ask for a graded rehab plan and clear signs that would justify repeating imaging or referrals.
Common pitfalls to avoid
- Doing too much on good days and crashing on the next: increase activity gradually
- Waiting for zero pain before moving: mild, safe discomfort is often part of rebuilding confidence
- Using tracking to obsess: focus on trends and function, not minute-to-minute scores
Conclusion
Chronic pain isn’t an inevitable life sentence. When you understand how the brain can keep the alarm active, you can work with the system: progressive movement, solid sleep, stress regulation, and smart tracking. Small daily steps, sustained, are often more powerful than any quick fix.
Knowledge offered by Mel Robbins